Booking & Availability

Cash and CashApp ($lavandes ; please leave note section blank) are my only accepted methods for one-time bookings.

Rates are non-negotiable and are listed as-is for one-time bookings. Rates are same for incall and outcall, however certain outcalls may require transportation coverage.

90m (minimum) - 450

4hr - 800

12hr - 1500

I value long term companionship over ad-lib dating, so if you find yourself wanting to see me often (~6hrs+ total a month, or 3+ bookings a month), we can discuss an arrangement that’s more sustainable than what’s listed above. I enjoy the process of cultivating genuine intimacy, and cherish my relationships with my patrons.

• switchy, but most often leading the dance
• ASAP: as slow as possible; as in, please savor our time together, so I can feel comfortable doing the same
• nothing is guaranteed and consent can be withdrawn at any time for any reason; pleasurable experiences only arise out of mutual respect and prioritization of each other's safety, and you will be held to the same standards I hold myself to
• pictures and videos are permitted with prior disclosure-- smart lenses are not permitted under any circumstances-- but please be aware that this is at my discretion; any media must stay in your private collection and is not to be distributed to even single parties under any circumstances
• longer dates do require food-- a 4hr booking or longer should include at least a meal or similar, but please let's limit any social drinking to no more than one or two so we can properly appreciate our time together

Generally I prefer getting to know each other more organically, but I'm equally as practical-- use this list as more of a guideline than a rulebook. For special occasions, or just to be thoughtful, tipping via cash or cashapp ($lavandes) will never not be appreciated, but there's also:

• time at a museum-- fine art, natural history, or local history-- will always be my favorite way to spend an afternoon; I have a wishlist of local and less-than-local museums I'm yearning for, and an equally long list of ones I want to return to
• live music pairs well with passionate dates; yes to symphonies, chamber performances, club venues, dive bar mosh pits, basement shows, and punk porch parties, but please no thank you to anything at stadiums or similarly extremely large venues (this includes fairground + festival events)
• cannabis is my preferred vice, my favorite strains include Durban Poison, White Widow, and Jack Herer ; pre-rolls are fun & convenient, but I personally love the sensory experience of rolling high-quality flower by hand
• my US women's clothing sizing: 34D (can also wear 36C), 2-4/small, shoe size 7.5
• I love sharing time practicing yoga asanas with others; even if you're not "flexible", I'd be thrilled to go to a yoga class with you, or even just doing a yoga video together after sleeping in during a late morning ; if you're more of an appreciator of the physical arts than you are a participant, a gift card to a local yoga studio for a few classes will definitely be utilized and I won't forget to make sure you also experience the benefits

I can always use extra harp strings, audio equipment, or a scheduled visit from a local luthier for harp maintenance, but please only show you value my love for music if you want to be considered an extremely thoughtful and favored human.